![]() Philippa’s answer He doesn’t know better about everything. Should I just accept his offer of help, even if I don’t want to, just to make him feel better for the sake of our relationship? I don’t enjoy feeling like a doormat, but I’m so tired of defending my choices. I think he’d be happy if I just accepted that he knows better about everything. I’ve always tried to “choose my battles”, but there seem to be so many. ![]() The result is I don’t feel I can vent if I’ve had a challenging day. He’s closed off to my experience of his teaching, so telling him “no” leads to an argument as he thinks I should feel differently. ![]() I make a conscious effort to express gratitude for his love – he’s kind and affectionate – so it surprised me that this is what he needs to feel loved. He covers the subjects he wants to share as opposed to those I need to learn. He’s an intelligent, clever man and early in our relationship when he tried to teach me a new language, he pitched way too high and I ended up feeling overwhelmed – how he explains things is not how I can learn. ![]()
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